Infidelity in Marriage: Guess Who Their Lover Used to Be?
With many spouses, marital infidelity is not just about the sex but a searching for what they had at one time in their relationship with you. Unfortunately they never went back to the source.
You asked your spouse over and over again why they did it. At first they just refused to answer. Then it turned into mumbling incoherence. Both responses only made you angrier which is to be expected.
After all it was they who shattered the marriage vows by carrying on an extramarital affair. You did everything within your power to make sure the relationship would only get better and now as far as you’re concerned it’s all gone.

