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Pregnancy And Fertility - 7 Tips For Men - How To Support Yourself And Your Partner After Miscarriag

Feb-11-2008 By admin

Miscarriage can be a very difficult and confusing time for men. Society may be suggesting that nothing very important has happened, but you know otherwise.

Perhaps you are feeling the loss yourself or seeing it in your partner. The following are ways in which you can take the lead and support yourself, your partner and your family after miscarriage.

7 Things You Can do Following Miscarriage

  • Know that whatever way you are responding to this situation is right for you. Your partner may well be experiencing the loss of your baby in a very different way. This is not a flaw in nature. Love can be expressed and experienced in very different ways. Allow yourself to be just the way you are. Allow her to be the way she is.

  • Know that you haven’t done anything wrong and remember that you ARE a dad and a very good dad.

  • You may feel the need to fix things if your partner is upset. But there is no need. If your partner is crying for example, just holding her can provide great comfort.

  • It is healthy and natural to let the sadness out. So don’t be afraid of this. See it as part of your healing processes and your body’s way of coming to terms with this loss.

  • Decide that this experience will bring you together and serve to bring more joy to your relationship and family. It can be a bit scary at times if your partner is feeling fragile. But YOU CAN maintain a clear vision of a future in which the sadness of this time is paving the way for a deeper connection, more love and joy in your relationship and family.

    Let your vision lead the way. And is this way, even if you and your partner are going through a hard time, you can see it as part of the journey to more harmony and love in your home.

  • Name your lovely baby if you have not already done that. It doesn’t matter if you are not sure of the gender. Pick a name that you both love.

  • If you like, you can plant a tree in honour of your baby. In that way you are making a special space for your baby in the family and allowing beauty to come from this experience. This can be a wonderful support over the years and if planted by the whole family, allows other children to be part of saying goodbye which really helps them also.

Which tip will you act on today? Choose one that resonates with you so your family can receive the gift of love your baby has to bring.

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